Here we are... it's the dreaded Black Friday.
Today, millions of insane people have rousted themselves from their nice cozy beds to be at big-box stores before dawn. They're off to try to snag amazing "deals" on a shameless display of "crap no one needs" so that they can give the crap to their loved ones. I, for one, will not be participating in that exercise.
Millions of slightly less insane people will plunk themselves down in front of their computers, all cozy in their jammies and fleecy bathrobes and fleece lined slippers, armed with a cup of their favorite hot beverage and a list of folks for whom they'd like to show their love and affection with a suitable gift. They too are trying to snag amazing deals on "crap no one needs".
Me, I'm going to try to join the Buy Nothing Day folks in shunning not only the stores, but the on-line opportunities to spend money. They'll be going on to shun their computers and TV-sets, but I don't think we're that strong here in ShadowLand.
More likely I'll be up at midnight, madly ordering yarn so that I can try to knit more presents than is humanly possible in the next 25 days.
Instead of shopping today, in addition to enjoying a second Thanksgiving Feast with a family I am thrilled beyond measure to have been adopted by, I will be trying to fine tune that annual bit of light reading I call the Holiday Newsletter. I send one out each year, tucked neatly into the Holiday Cards that I send to friends and family who are spread out across the country (and across the pond). For some, the newsletter is likely to be a waste of ink and paper, since I speak to, or email, them often. For others, it's really the only thing that keeps them up to date with the goings on around ShadowLand (a fact which is sad on many levels, but we're skipping that).
This newsletter thing is tough. First, since I'm actually making hard copies, I want it to be concise. Sure, I can write out a ten page tome that will actually tell you all that's been going on for the past yer, but I'm not interested in killing that many trees, milking that many printer-toner-giving things, or paying that much postage. Furthermore, I'm guessing that only a very few people are actually interested in reading that much. (I suppose, for them, I could work up an annual page that they could go read on line -- but ... oh yeah, I blog so a lot of this stuff is already there -- with pictures). So, each year, I try to condense twelve months worth of news for five people into one page.
Second, since this is the Holiday Season... the time when we focus on joy instead of the fact that daylight is waning fast and the world looks pretty much dark and frgid ... I don't want to fill the newsletter with negative stuff. Additionally, sometimes the negative stuff is stuff that we don't want the whole world to know. That means that I need to at least condense the bad stuff into single throw-away lines so they won't make the thing a downer, and in the interests of keeping the thing to one page, usually means I omit the bad stuff altogether. That sometimes feels like I'm lying. I hate that. (but only slightly less than I'd hate reading a newsletter full of bad news).
Third, once you take out the bad stuff, and whittle it down to brief summaries, the thing sounds like a list that serves only to brag about accomplishments and flaunt luck and inspire jealousy. That seems... like something of which Miss Manners would not approve.
Am I the only one who feels this way?
I've one friend who sends a sort of top ten list. Ten sentences (headlines perhaps) reporting the ten most significant things from her family's past year. I often feel cheated by that. No details... it feels cursory. But... upon review of OUR letter, I note that it's pretty cursory too. I'll keep fiddling, 'cause I've a stack of cards all ready for the mail-box except for slipping in that newsletter...
On second thought, seeing how far ahead I am, I think I'll go knit instead. Or possibly, I'll just write a new post in which I wax eloquent about the amazing Thanksgiving Feasts I've been party to this year, and wallow in the fact that today... I'm one privileged chick.
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